TV Review: "Stargirl" Pilot

When a beloved property gets adapted to movies or tv, there tend to be one of two extreme reactions from the fanbase.  Either they love it and overlook its flaws because of the joy of seeing the story on the screen or they hate it because of the flaws and how the story is warped by what is on the screen.

I have been a big fan of Courtney Whitmore aka Stargirl for decades now.  She has this unique dynamic in how she is presented in comics.  She is teenager, basically a child, who still is able to rise to the level of courageous feats while never losing that spark of innocence.  I've always loved that her design is clearly youthful and feminine without being over-sexualized, as often happens in comics.  This makes sense since the might Geoff Johns designed Courtney after his late sister.  And Stargirl acted as a legacy character to the great DC Golden Age while letting us see the DCU through young eyes of wonder.

So as a super fan, how did I feel about the Stargirl pilot?

I loved it!

For those who are unfamiliar, the basic plot of Stargirl is this:  Courtney Whitmore (Brec Bassinger) is a teen girl from Los Angeles who has to move to Blue Valley, Nebraska because her mother Barbara (Amy Smart) married the affable mechanic Pat Dugan (Luke Wilson).  Soon they along with Pat's middle-school-aged son Mike (Trae Romano) find themselves in small town Midwest, where things may not be quite what they seem.  As Courtney feels greater alienation she accidentally discovers Pat's secret:  He was the sidekick to Starman (Joel McHale), who died ten years earlier along with most members of the Justice Society of America.  But for some reason, Starman's cosmic staff, a device that seems to be part pseudo-Iron Man weapon and part magic carpet from Aladdin, calls to her and sets her up on some misadventures.

One of the things that struck me about the pilot is how cinematic it felt.   Not only was the opening sequence like something out of a theatrical super hero film, but even the more emotional moments that followed were filmed with a care that I don't usually see on TV.  This is not a knock at television directors, as the time pressures are usually much more demanding.  But Stargirl felt like it could have fit in right alongside SHAZAM!

Along with that film, it shares a similar tone.  The pilot juxtaposes the innocent wonder of being a child who discovers super powers with the darker elements of adolescents.  But it does so while maintaining a strong sense of humor.  It was very reminiscent of Buffy the Vampire Slayer, except not as steeped in melodrama and cynicism (in fact I get the feeling as the show progresses, it will feel even more and more like the Buffy).  Sometimes this tone works really well, as when we are filled with excited joy as Courtney discovers what the staff can do.  Sometimes it doesn't work as well, as in odd humor during Starman's death scene.  All the while the score by Pinar Toprak (who composed the music for Captain Marvel) elevates the pilot to make it feel even more like a movie.  The colors and production values, especially on Pat Dugan's beautiful vintage car, are fun to watch.  Add to that some of the best special effects I've seen for a DC TV show and I was thoroughly entertained the entire time.

Bassinger is a little rough around the edges.  There are times when she is clearly "acting" and doesn't feel as natural as she should.  I tend to be a little more forgiving of younger actors, and in this case her youth works for her.  One of the things I like about her casting is that she doesn't feel like some overly-mature supermodel playing a teenager.  She feels like a real teen, with that adorable and frustrating mixture of maturity and immaturity.  Wilson is fantastic as Dugan.  He is perfect as the seeming nice guy who finishes last.  He still feels in awe and in the shadow of Starman and the rest of the JSA.  You can see how his feelings of inadequacy as a sidekick and step-father continually frustrate him, but not to the point of despair.  Wilson is doing something actually incredibly difficult: portraying basic decency in a dramatic way.  Smart doesn't seem to have aged a day since she came on the scene in the 1990's.  She wasn't given a lot to do in this episode, but I like how the family dynamic is going to play out.

Now, as I mentioned at the top of the article, I am probably falling into the camp that overlooks the flaws of the show a bit too much.  A lot of the side characters are given brief introductions and appear to be stereotypes of typical high school shows.  But their brief appearances don't weigh too heavily on the pilot.

As big fan of Starman and the JSA, it was so exciting to get glimpses of Golden Age Flash, Hourman, Dr. Fate, Johnny Thunder, and the rest.  While the show, for simplicity's sake, conflates The Star-Spangled Kid/Skyman (Sylvester Pemberton) with Starman (Jack Knight), it is completely forgivable and actually removes an unnecessary layer of complexity.  I am someone who reads the entire run of James Robinson's Starman every few years and to see the Cosmic Staff figure in so prominently and in such detail is a lot of fun.  I love the innovation of giving the staff a kind of personality.  It helps nudge Courtney onto the heroic path and helps make up for any early deficits in her superhero fighting skills.

The episode ends on a nice little cliffhanger and left wanting more.

I watched the show on the DCU app, but it will be premiering on broadcast TV tonight at 8pm on the CW.  I can't guarantee that the quality will maintain past the pilot, but right now I think episode is one of the best comic book pilots I have seen.

The 100th Birthday of Pope St. John Paul the Great

In German-occupied Poland, soldiers entered an apartment building and rounded up all the residents.  They were taken to Auschwitz and executed by firing squad just outside the room where St. Maximillian Kolbe was martyred.  Every person in that building was taken there and killed.

Except one.

There was a small room under the basement steps that the Germans overlooked in their haste.  If they had noticed, they would have found and executed a young seminarian named Karol Wojtyla.  But because they missed him, the world was forever changed by this man who would later be known as Pope John Paul II.

And today is his 100th birthday.

I have a personal love for this pope.  For most of my life, he was the only pope I had ever known.  And to some extent, I think I have been spoiled as a Catholic by being formed in the papacy of JP2.
He was such a monumental and holy figure that it would be easy to forget that the history of the papacy is filled with pontiffs who are nowhere near as virtuous or wise.  It was easy to forget that the greatness of John Paul II is the exception and not the rule.  But it is a testament to him that he has become the archetype for the modern papacy.

I do not think I am overselling to say that he changed how popes are to perform their ministry.  The most visible change is the evangelical shift in the papacy.  Before John Paul II, it was very rare that a pope would travel outside the confines of the Vatican.  There were many practical reasons for this.  But the reality was that the pope was a shepherd who lived on his mountain and would guide the sheep through his authoritative  voice.  John Paul II remained a shepherd, but he understood that he was also to follow St. Peter and be a "fisher of men." 

John Paul travelled the world over and over, reaching out to every corner of this universal Church.  How many people were brought to Christ and discovered vocations to the priesthood and religious life because of his participation in World Youth Days?  He went out to the ends of the Earth like St. Paul to spread the good news.

I had the privilege of seeing him in Toronto in 2002.  I was only a few yards away from him at one point when he passed.  I try to explain to people what it was like to be in his presence, and the best way I can describe it is that it was like being in the presence of Aslan.  Either you understand this our you don't.

He was fearless in is defense of truth.  He understood so keenly that the modern moral fight of the 20th century was a battle between two cultures: the Culture of Life and the Culture of Death.  This same battle rages on, but he helped give us the vocabulary to understand where the cultural battle lines are drawn.  From him we have the beautiful Theology of the Body which has become even more relevant now as the basic truths about how we are as men and women are being denied because of fashionable philosophies.  His teachings were clear and bold, allowing for the complexity of life while not falling into the trap of ambiguity. 

But he was above all someone who lived a life in closeness to Christ.  He was shot at point blank range but survived.  He not only proclaimed Jesus teaching of forgiveness, but lived it.  John Paul went to the prison and embraced his would-be assassin.  He met with him privately.  He spoke with him.  He prayed with him.  John Paul II took to heart and embodied the fact that if we are forgiven by Christ, we must forgive others.

And he lived a life sustained on prayer.  When his body began to break down, he showed us that we don't have to be afraid of suffering if we are in friendship with God.  He never stopped, he never gave up, he never gave in.  He showed us that Jesus must continue reign as the modern world tries to push Him out.

There are those who criticize him for policy mistakes he made or faults in his practical judgment at times.  I am not here to argue those now.  Like all of us, his life was filled with complexities and he was not (as many people misunderstand) infallible in all things.

As for me, whenever I hear the word "pope," the first face I will always see is that of St. John Paul the Great.

Sunday Best: STEVEN SPIELBERG MOVIES RANKED - #15-#13

We are returning this week to ranking the movies of Steven Spielberg, the greatest director of all time.

For those keeping score at home, the rankings so far have been:

16	The Twilight Zone
17	Duel
18	Munich
19	Minority Report
20	Amistad
21	A.I. Artificial Intelligence
22	The Lost World: Jurassic Park
23	The Post
24	War of the Worlds
25	Indiana Jones and the Kingdom of the Crystal Skull
26	The Adventures of Tintin
27	War Horse
28	The BFG
29	The Terminal
30	Hook
31	Amblin'
32	Empire of the Sun
33	The Sugarland Express
34	The Color Purple
35	1941

Today we will tackle #15-#11. 


15.  Always


This is one of Spielberg's most sentimental movies, and that is saying a lot.  The story is about Pet Sandich (Richard Dreyfus), a pilot who fights forest fires with his best friend Al (John Goodman) and the his girlfriend Dorinda (Holly Hunter).  But when Pete dies in a fire, he invisibly haunts Dorinda and Al as they grieve.  Pete then slowly watches a romance bloom between Dorinda and new hotshot pilot Ted (Brad Johnson)

There are some script problems with this movie.  Particularly that it gets WAY too talkie at the very end and that the movie clearly should have involved Dorinda with Al.  But besides, that, you can see Spielberg using all of his powers to pull at the heartstrings.

The firefighting scenes are harrowing.  You can feel the constant danger from the hellish landscape, which only accentuates the courage of those who fly into danger.  Throughout the movie, Spielberg makes the lives of these fire-fighting pilots so visually engaging and interesting, that the romance is almost a distraction.

I have never been a big fan of Holly Hunter, but Spielberg films her in the most attractive lighting so that you can easily understand how Pet and Ted fall in love with her.  Goodman does a great turn that is both comedic and dramatic, proving early in his stardom that he could tackle and amazing range.  Dreyfus is also charming and charismatic as Pete and he carries us throughout the film.  There is even an ethereal Audrey Hepburn as Pete's spiritual guide, Hap, who brings a quiet peace and grace.

The afterlife images are so incredibly gorgeous.  The scene where Hap and Pete walk through the Illisum Fields is pastoral and peaceful that you can almost feel the paradise around the corner. 

Ultimately, the movie is about love, grief, and letting go.  People often accuse Spielberg of being sappy.  If they do, they could certainly turn to this film, which is unabashedly a tear-jerker.  I cannot help but get emotional watching Pete and Dorinda's ghostly dance late.  It is such a beautiful picture of complete intimacy and tragic distance at the same time.  It is a moment that so visually captures the grieving process.  If you want a good emotional catharsis, I would recommend this film.

14.  Close Encounters of the Third Kind

There are many people who would put this film higher on the list.  And there is much to admire about it and much for which Spielberg should be proud.  Not the least of which is that this is one of the few movies that he also wrote.

The biggest flaw with the film is a stylistic one.  In this film, like AI: Artificial Intelligence (which Spielberg also wrote), the movie is focused more on giving the viewer a unique theatrical experience than it is in telling a straightforward story.  As someone who places narrative as primary, this approach tends to be a big turn-off.  Spielberg himself admits that there are things he would not have written in the film now that he is older, particularly how the main character Roy (again Richard Dreyfus), leaves his family to pursue his obsession.

However, Spielberg is mostly able to overcome this deficit by creating such a rich and moving atmosphere to the film.  There is a choking feeling of encroachment as the characters begin to encounter these other-worldly beings.  Spielberg is able to create a strong horror-movie vibe, as seen in the abduction of the child.  But above and beyond that, there is a strong sense of almost existential dread at human powerlessness in the face of such an overwhelming and mysterious alien force. 

What is absolutely incredible about this focus on atmosphere is that Spielberg is able to make the shift from horror to wonder without it feeling like a false step.  Roy is surrounded by all of these seemingly sinister forces like the US Military and the aliens themselves.  But in the final scenes, we can see the bare and innocence in everyone, including the aliens.  We can see two people taking the first steps in communicating.  It is powerful in its use of its visuals and music (who can forget that amazing set of tones from the mighty John Williams?).  But it is also a powerful statement of hope and optimism.  It says that in the black void of space there could be friendly faces waiting for us.  And even more wondrous, that we could receive them with a friendly welcome.

13.  Ready Player One

From my review:

Steven Spielberg's Ready Player One has been called "nostalgia porn" for its plethora of inside-joke, '80's geek references spread throughout the film...

And yet Ready Player One is a great deal of fun.  The virtual world is gorgeous.  I know many people might be turned off by its artificiality, but I found it to be a new and creative way to film and frame the action in ways not bound by the real world.  Often movies that look like video games can feel passive, like someone else is playing that video game and you are only watching.  But the way the movie is filmed, Spielberg makes you feel as if you are the one leading the action.  The visual dynamic was incredibly exciting.  The nostalgia factor added layers of texture to what is already a thrilling spectacle.  Spielberg still employs is trademark single shots to get across the emotional effect he desires.  The environment of the stacks makes you feel closed in and claustrophobic.  He also does a great job of distinguishing how he films the real world and the Oasis, employing hard lighting and hand-held cameras for the former and using bold colors and smooth camera moves for the latter.  Spielberg shows us the wonders of the Oasis, but wisely shows us how ridiculous people look from the outside with their VR gear on.  He constantly tries to show the balance so that you don't make the false choice of one world over the other.

I am also a sucker for a good treasure hunt movie, whether it be Indiana Jones, The Goonies, National Treasure, or the much underrated 1980's Disney film Midnight Madness.  Ready Player One is just a scavenger hunt on a large scale that overlaps with my personal wheelhouse of 80's pop culture.  The narrative moves well as each discovery leads to the next clue which leads to the next challenge and so on.  This continues as our heroes grow closer bonds to each other as the story progresses. 

In the most stunning scene in the film, our heroes have to enter into a famous movie that Haliday loved.  When I say "enter into the movie" I mean that in a literal sense.  This was one of my favorite visual spectacles in years as the digital avatars enter into the movie's environment faithfully recreated with film grain, lighting, and music.  It was so completely immersive that I found myself having to often look away (you will understand what this means when you see the movie).  I have honestly never seen anything like this scene.

Haliday is Spielberg.  Spielberg helped create the popular culture we all live in.  He was a kid who dreamed of becoming the greatest filmmaker in history, which he has.  Movies are expensive and this is understandable.  But in many ways he has become a corporation.  And in that there is a loss of that innocent artistic purity.  The same thing is seen in Haliday, who knows that something has been lost along the way and hopes that the next generation will set right what he did wrong.  Both Haliday and Spielberg want to draw you in to a fantasy world in order to enrich life in the real world.  But how many of us get stuck in fantasy.  The movie asks the question whether or not our interactions with games and art are making life in the real world better or worse.

To be sure, Spielberg good have gone much deeper with implication of technology as he did with AI and Minority Report.  Instead he just wanted to tell a fun adventure story, which is no bad thing.

So whether you know what the Glave is from the movie Krull or you are only a casual movie-goer, Ready Player One is a fun, visual spectacle that you will enjoy watching.

DC Comics: Dodging the 5G Bullet.

A few months ago, I first heard rumblings about the next planned big event in DC Comics called "5G."  Besides the title being incredibly stupid and confusing, I could not find a lot of details until recently when it became rumored that the project is dead.

When I looked into what 5G was intended to be, it is clear that DC wised up and dodged a bullet.

5G was a planned DC event where the main heroes of the DCU were to be replaced by a next generation of characters in all of their main books.  For example Clark Kent would be replaced with his son Jon.  Bruce Wayne would be replaced with Luke Fox.  The "5G" was meant to mean "5th Generation" of super heroes.

In DC, there have been a lot of legacy characters who have taken up a title hero's role with varying success.  The best examples of this are the Flash and Green Lantern, who both were smash hits when they replaced their Golden Age characters (Jay Garrick and Alan Scott) with their Silver Age successors (Barry Allen and Hal Jordan).  They even managed to do it years later with the Wally West Flash and Kyle Rayner Green Lantern. 

But those are the exceptions, not the rule.  Some heroes are so tied to their original character that you any substantial change will not take.

Clark Kent is Superman.
Bruce Wayne is Batman.
Diana of Themyscira is Wonder Woman

There have been times when other people have taken on the mantle.  And to be sure, there have been interesting stories found in those replacement arcs, like Reign of the Supermen or Grant Morrison's Batman and Robin.  But even in the best of those times, it always felt like those characters were borrowing the costume until the real hero returned.

That is one of the fundamental flaws with something like 5G.  No matter how expansive the story would be, it would never feel like it was one of lasting consequence.  All of us would simply wait until Clark, Bruce, and Diana would return.  And if they delayed the return too long, fans would become fed up.

As far as I can tell, this idea was the brainchild of Dan DiDio.  I am no industry insider, so take everything in this following paragraph with a grain of salt as I have had to cobble it together from unverified sources.  But nearly everything I've ever hated in the modern DCU has come from Dan DiDio.  He notoriously hated legacy characters like Dick Grayson and has pushed for them to be killed off.  After the buzz from The New 52 wore off, he tried to make the comic line hip and cool with his "DC-You" push where they depowered superman and a mohawked Jim Gordon wore a metal suit that looked like the Tick and became the new Batman.  DiDio was the one who mandated to Tom King that he make Wally West a murderer in Heroes in Crisis. 

5G smacks of desperation to get media attention and appear cutting edge and relevant.  It also does something I hate DC doing: copying Marvel. 

Marvel has done a lot to replace their main heroes over the years and it hasn't worked.  Steve Rogers, Tony Stark, Bruce Banner, and Logan were all replaced in the last few years only to be brought back (thought a number of them are weird cosmic clones but I don't want to get into that now).  The original Ms. Marvel (Carol Danvers) replaced Captain Marvel, but the only reason why this sticks is because the original has been dead for decades and Marvel refuses to admit that this character's selling comic is not popular with fans.

My point is that 5G is not only copying the strategy of Marvel, it was copying a losing strategy.

It appears as of this writing that 5G will not happen and I can understand why.  The comic industry is on the brink because of the pandemic shutdown.  Stores are starting to reopen, but when they do DC has decided not to bet all of their chips on unknown characters who most people do not know.  Remember, 5G was not going to be some isolated mini-series.  All of the main books would go through this hero replacement.  That would be like the time that the Dukes of Hazard were replaced with their unknown, lookalike cousins.  In that case, the ratings tanked and viewership was never the same.  I imagine DC is worried that the same thing could happen with 5G.

What DC needs to remember that in terms of story, the superhero name is not a brand.  To the fans, a superhero is a person.  There is a reason why Clark, Bruce, and Diana have remained the icons that they are for so long.  You can't just put anyone in the suit and call them "Superman," "Batman," or "Wonder Woman." 

Perhaps DC, and the entire comic book industry for that matter, should stop focusing on keeping up with trends that are here today and gone tomorrow and instead focus on the characters that we know have endured the test of time. 

Feast Day of Our Lady of Fatima 2020

photo by TrapistMonkStuff

Today is the Feast of Our Lady of Fatima.

As I've written on this blog before, Our Lady of Fatima has been an important source of spiritual growth in my life.  Her message of prayer, penance, and peace is one to which I often aspire, but as often fail.

She came at a time of war and within a year, little Jacinta and Francesco Marto had died in the Spanish Flu pandemic.  And yet, she is a constant sign of hope from Heaven.

I would like to invite you in joining me in prayer to Our Lady of Fatima with a Fatima Litany:

Our Lady of Fatima,	pray for our dear country.
Our Lady of Fatima,	sanctify our clergy.
Our Lady of Fatima,	make our Catholics more fervent.
Our Lady of Fatima,	guide and inspire those who govern us.
Our Lady of Fatima,	cure the sick who confide in thee.
Our Lady of Fatima,	console the sorrowful who trust in thee.
Our Lady of Fatima,	help those who invoke your aid.
Our Lady of Fatima,	deliver us from all dangers.
Our Lady of Fatima,	help us to resist temptation.
Our Lady of Fatima,	obtain for us all that we lovingly ask of thee.
Our Lady of Fatima,	help those who are dear to us.
Our Lady of Fatima,	bring back to the right road our erring brothers.
Our Lady of Fatima,	give us back our ancient fervor.
Our Lady of Fatima,	obtain for us pardon of our manifold sins and offenses.
Our Lady of Fatima,	bring all men to the feet of thy Divine Child.
Our Lady of Fatima,	obtain peace for the world.
O Mary conceived without sin,	pray for us who have recourse to thee.
Immaculate Heart of Mary,	pray for us now and at the hour of our death. Amen.

Let Us Pray
O God of infinite goodness and mercy, fill our hearts with a great confidence in Thy dear Mother, whom we invoke under the title of Our Lady of the Rosary and our Lady of Fatima, and grant us by her powerful intercession all the graces, spiritual and temporal, which we need. Through Christ our Lord. Amen.

(source ewtn.com)

New Evangelizers Post: Evangelization By Listening

I have a new article up at NewEvangelizers.com.  

The goal of evangelization is not to win arguments.

If you are a reader of this website, you probably come here sometimes for answers on how best to answer some religious objection you’ve encountered or for some new way to explain the truth of Christianity to someone who is opposed. And to be sure, logic and apologetics has an incredibly important place in this process. We are defenders of truth and we must fight for that truth at all costs.

But the mistake many of us make, including myself, is to try to win the argument. This looks at the encounter with our theological opponent as a joust of words and we use arguments as weapons to disarm and defeat them. In this way, we somehow think our arguments can conquer them for Christ. But that looks at it all wrong.

We don’t want to win the argument.

We want to win the person.

I have found that when entering an argument, instead of reaching the opponent to change their minds or hearts, the opposite occurs. Arguments often impel us to fight back and defend our positions, even if they are on shaky ground. You can see this especially if the debate is public, for example on the internet. There is a lot of pressure to not lose face and admit that you are wrong. So it sometimes occurs that our opponent will dig into a theological position simply to not have to admit defeat for others to see.

Once when I was in class, I had a student who insisted that the unborn child was simply an extension of the mother’s body because they were attached. I dismantled her argument by showing her how absurd her position was by asking her this: “Are conjoined twins the same person if they are attached to each other?” It would be ridiculous for her to hold that these twins are the same person, but it would have to be true if physical attachment meant the fetus was simply a part of the mother. But she answered “Yes” to my question. She could not admit defeat so she had to defend an illogical position.

In moments like these, I sometimes use them as an opportunity to give light to the others who are listening. They can see before them the light of reason shines brighter. But even in those cases, there has been a failure to reach the arguer. I know that not everyone’s heart is open and I know that I am not the greatest apologist for the faith. But the question remains: how do we reach those who have their mental defenses up?

I think we can look to St. Dominic for inspiration.

In the High Middle Ages, a heresy arose that began to sweep through Europe called Albigensianism. These heretics believed that all material things, including the human body, were evil. As a result, they embraced lives of poverty, criticized the worldliness of the Church, and condemned marriage. Obviously, their central thesis about matter being bad must be refuted. God made all things, including the material world. And all things made by God are good.

But one of the reasons that the Albegensians had such power was that they tapped into some truths that were evident at the time. Particularly, the Church was in much need of renewal because of its exceeding worldliness in that era. St. Dominic could have simply engaged in apologetic jousting to defeat his opponents. The danger here is that it might cause those sympathetic to these heretics to dig into their position. Instead, St. Dominic did something quite radical.

St. Dominic listened to them.

When I say he simply listened to them, I don’t mean that he heard their arguments, analyzed them, and then figured out a way to defeat them. Instead, he sought to truly and fully understand their beliefs. And then he did something even more radical:

St. Dominic agreed and defended his opponents’ beliefs when he could.

He was able to find the truth of their beliefs that was mixed with the error and then he was able to stand with them to defend the truth they held in common. St. Dominic understood that they were correct that the Church had become too worldly. So he started one of the first mendicant or “begging” religious orders. He and his followers voluntarily embraced poverty so as to be more detached from worldly desires. They also took vows of chastity and remained celibate. In outward appearance, they seemed to be the same as the Albegensians. But they took these radical vows not as a condemnation of the material world as evil, but as a sign one can live in this material world while keeping your heart in the next world.

As a result, the Dominicans won over many Albegensians until the heresy essentially became no more. St. Dominic never compromised essential truth, but he was humble enough to reach out to the truth held by his opponents.

You can read the whole article here.

Mother's Day 2020

We went to the cemetery today.

My mom has been gone for two and half years, and I still miss her every day.

Strangely, thought, today was not a melancholy day.  My family gathered at the grave.  My wife arranged for a nice bouquet to be placed and my nieces and nephews had made paper flowers that were as beautiful as they were wholesome in their childlike innocent devotion. 

We stood around in masks, of course.  Being so close to each other without embracing broke my heart a little.  But to be reunited with them, to be in their presence was invigorating and joyful.  As we stood around our mother's grave, our talk was jovial, even in the sadness of the setting.  My eldest nieces prayed a Hail Mary at the grave and we spent time in remembrance of her.  A fresh grave was dug very closely to mom and one of my little nieces commented on how that "wasn't very nice."

Part of me feels a little guilty that the time was so light-hearted, but it's what my mother would have enjoyed.  And reunions with those we love should be times of joy.

Being so close to everyone but having these social distancing barriers between us made me think of my mom now.  I still talk to her every day.  As a Catholic, I believe in the communion of saints and that our relationship didn't end when she left this world.  But there is a real barrier between us, just like there is between my family gathered at the grave.  But despite the sadness, I know that the barriers between us will one day melt away.  I'm not just talking about the social distancing and the masks.  I'm also talking about that barrier of death.  I call to her into the great silence, but for now I can receive no answer. 

But I know that even this barrier of death will be removed. 

If I am judged mercifully, then one day I will see my most beloved mother again.  I will see the woman who gave me life and loved me into becoming the person I am now.  When that time comes, though I hope it is not anytime soon, she will be proud of the man I have become since our parting.  On that day I will rejoice.

Because reunions with those we love should be times of joy.

Until then, I continue to pray her this Mother's Day and every day until the end of all things.

And my thoughts and prayers are with all of the mothers who read this post.  God bless.